Another one bites the dust

[ringsandcoffee]

Aaaaaaaaaannnd another couple I know just got engaged. Frick. What is wrong with me?

Comments

There's nothing wrong with you.

[ewanspotter.livejournal.com]

Reading this post, first I was like:




Then I was like:

[debmommy22.livejournal.com]

Nothing is wrong with you. I remember thinking I would NEVER find the right man to marry me. Shoot! dating was not good at all and ...let me correct myself...dating was "nonexsitant". I was too shy. I finally met the right guy through a doctor friend of ours...I know, dangerous, but it worked and we are happy for the most part...I'm not sure that last part applies to you about the doc. Usually blind dates do not work.

It took so long to find him, I considered becoming a Nun & I'm not Catholic! lol!...ok some bad humor there.

You will find him, just hang in there.

{{{Hugs}}} :)

[jessibobessi.livejournal.com]

I feel your pain!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm in a relationship and still can't get engaged.

I think the secret is to just date EVERYONE lol. In all honesty it probably does make sense. In college, omg did I "date" (go on dates) with so many different types of guys and the ones I ended up falling for or getting in relationships with - were not always necessarily the "ideal" I thought I wanted but I ended up falling for them anyway and loving their ideal.

Also, don't wait for them. I asked out tons of guys in my past. Half the time, even if they are interested in you (which you won't always tell because men enjoy sending mixed signals)...they're a chicken shit and won't ask you out so take their chicken shit by the balls and ask them!

[laurasia-mystik.livejournal.com]

Don't see it as a failure on YOUR part! Way more often than not, it's the men that need to get their crap together to be even remotely marriage material.

[bowiechaser.livejournal.com]

ABSOLUTELY NOTHING is wrong with you. Honey, please do not compare yourself to others in that area. It is unfair and unrealistic. I, for one, am GLAD you aren't just settling for any ol' guy so that you can say you're engaged or so that you can get married.

And, since you're a Christian, I am assuming that you have an absolute committment to NOT dating guys who don't have that personal relationship with Christ (and I applaud that, since God specifically states DO NOT BE UNEQUALLY YOKED)... have you asked around at church at all? I don't even know if you're part of a small group? That can help. Being active in your church is very helpful in meeting single guys who very likely share your faith. :D

[mysterygal11.livejournal.com]

Nothing is wrong with you! You are fantabulous. :-) And you have a lot to look forward to in the relationship department.

[mashena.livejournal.com]

feel the pain.

the few guys that I have had interested in me... just weren't right...and I wasn't being that picky.

it's annoying...but I figure singleness hasn't killed me yet.