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ringsandcoffee ([personal profile] ringsandcoffee) wrote2010-12-02 08:03 pm

Another one bites the dust

Aaaaaaaaaannnd another couple I know just got engaged. Frick. What is wrong with me?

[identity profile] jessibobessi.livejournal.com 2010-12-03 11:15 am (UTC)(link)
I feel your pain!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm in a relationship and still can't get engaged.

I think the secret is to just date EVERYONE lol. In all honesty it probably does make sense. In college, omg did I "date" (go on dates) with so many different types of guys and the ones I ended up falling for or getting in relationships with - were not always necessarily the "ideal" I thought I wanted but I ended up falling for them anyway and loving their ideal.

Also, don't wait for them. I asked out tons of guys in my past. Half the time, even if they are interested in you (which you won't always tell because men enjoy sending mixed signals)...they're a chicken shit and won't ask you out so take their chicken shit by the balls and ask them!

[identity profile] bowiechaser.livejournal.com 2010-12-03 05:03 pm (UTC)(link)
Good advice & all, but if you want a man that's going to persue YOU and make you feel desired, you should not have to chase them down or be the aggressor in getting the dating going, IMO. I don't want to have to chase down a guy - that's THEIR job!
Easy pickin's and no chase for a guy too often leads to disappointment. :/

[identity profile] ringsandcoffee.livejournal.com 2010-12-04 07:12 am (UTC)(link)
Hmm, that requires to me to get over my own chicken-ness o_O

[identity profile] debmommy22.livejournal.com 2010-12-04 09:13 pm (UTC)(link)
This I understand. Me was a chicken too......... :D